I am a firm believer that, in terms of sex, whatever goes on behind a couples bedroom door (or bathroom, kitchen, pool, sofa ect) is never wrong as long as both people enjoy it. Thankfully, I married someone with the same thought. I know how that can sound and a lot of people automatically jump to the worse possible sexual acts one can imagine. That is not what I’m talking about. I’m talking about being open to new experiences such as various locations, positions, toys, enhancers, lingerie – whatever! I’m talking about being comfortable enough with your self and your partner to be truly open in the bedroom.
Now this sense of adventure has lead to a few things:
- A handful of favorite positions.
- A small collection of couple enhancers.
- Some awkward do-not-repeat-ever-again moments.
- Breaks in the routine.
- A deeper connection with my husband
- A comfortableness with each other in all things sexual.
Oh sure, we have had some “Oh My, how did we ever think we could do this?” and some “Well, this is just awkward” moments but the important thing was that we are comfortable with each other and ourselves enough to laugh it off – then cross it off our “Try It” list. I enjoy the fact that I know what my husband likes, what he doesn’t like and what we just aren’t flexible enough to do! Although, sometimes I notice that after a while I tend to forget little things. It’s like we have been having sex for so long that I just know my husbands body and stop taking the time to give every area the attention it deserves.
Granted, the largest cause of this is that we’re just tired! I mean at the end of a long day who can always take the time to start at the beginning when you know just the right buttons to push to skip a few steps. Well, I found a solution for this, every now again we relearn each others body. We take the time to give each other all the attention we deserve and most times we find that we forgot a few things the other liked along the way. It’s a great way to reconnect and make sure that you’re partner is staying satisfied.
Day 3: My Husbands Wife Rocks
If you recall, day 3 is my turn to take the lead. I spent some time thinking and I knew just what Jake would like. My husband finds me sexy in lingerie but he finds me even sexier in the morning – bed head and all. So I knew what time I wanted to fulfill day 3! Sounds easy right? Wrong. This weekend we spent away, at my in laws, and while we had privacy during night 2 it’s impossible to get a moment to yourself during the day! So I decided to get creative. I woke him up in a way that was anything but innocent and when I was sure that he was up I invited him to take a hot shower with me. Normally, my husband wakes up 2 hours earlier than I and I couldn’t remember the last time we had any fun in the shower so it was a great break in the routine for both of us. Now, if you haven’t taken a “hot” shower with your husband I recommend it for for a few reasons.
- There is something about water beating on you that is an aphrodisiac.
- You Smell Good.
- Clean up is a breeze.
- (This one is especially good if you’re in a house full of people.) The water muffles most sounds!